I have liked guys and girl my whole life I have used lesbian mostly. Recently my partner came out as non-binary and my feelings didnt leave after that so now im thinking maybe im pan or bi but I dont really know I guess what im asking is what was that feeling when you knew what fit.
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I think u are pan-
(Idk very much about this so-)
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I totally understand but I don’t think you should worry about labels if you’re no sure yet 
You’ll find the one that fits best eventually
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For me, I saw a guy walking by, went “Hm. He’s cute.” and then it took me HALF AN HOUR to realize what that meant. When I did, I just shrugged and went “okay.” That makes sense for me because I come from the gayest family in my part of the state.
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you’re likely bi with a preference for women, sexuality is fluid and it doesnt have to be a split in the middle 50/50; i personally have a preference for men but im still bi
or you could be neptunic but if you like guys then that doesnt really work
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If you still love your partnerand it doesn’t matter the gender, you are pan